It’s time to shift your perspective to get what you want!
Do you find yourself looking for outside comfort and security, from your friends, lover, colleagues, parents and children? And let’s say, if you don’t get the comfort and security you end up judging them. And this judgement sounds like this: he/she is not the person I need them to be, they are not supportive, caring, giving, or whatever else comes up for you.
Do you sometimes avoid responsibility because you think whatever is happening to you is out of your control? Let’s say you are dealing with an injury, a disease, a divorce, a breakup. In this situation, you find your focus point to be on the circumstance and the person and how they put you in this situation?
If you answered yes to any of these questions it’s time for a makeover in your perspective.
In the above scenarios it’s about focusing on what you don’t want or what you don’t have. With this attitude, you are always dealing with problems, facing conflict and questioning why is this happening to me or why does this always happen to me? If you embody this attitude you are stuck in a victim mentality and your safe place is to freeze or run away. Can you relate?
When you find yourself in this position, the goal is to shift your perspective and move away from the victim mentality into a mentality of trust, certainty and I’ve got this!
Here are some things you can implement right away to shift your perspective!
- Get clear on what you want in life, what is your vision for your life, work and relationship? For example, if you are dealing with a health issue, what is your vision for that? Here are some questions that will help you design your vision. What action can I take to get there? What can I do to improve the situation? How can I see this from a different perspective? What is my learning opportunity here?
- Next create a clear plan, and align your actions and thoughts with your vision.
- Be grateful for the positive things in your life.
By implementing the above 3 points, you’ll be able to easily move towards overcoming adversary that is standing in your way. The bonus by doing this is to manifest a life and attitude you are excited about!
I’m here to help you shift your perspective, and your internal compass to feel good about yourself. By working together you will gain clarity about what it is that you want to create in your life and you will do it! Click here to begin your FREE journey.